To my siblings...

I have best friends for life in my siblings.

Several years ago, I realized that I was spending sleepless nights worrying about life's journeys. I would stir in my bed for hours with my "to do" lists buzzing in my head (one of the joys of my type-A personality). I tried writing my feelings in a journal, but I needed feedback. I was already a prayerful person, but I needed something else. Not something more...just something different. One night, I went to the computer and purged out everything that was stressing me. I wrote it all out in an email to my sister-in-law, Susan. Even though my stresses had nothing to do with her, I knew she would listen. I went back to bed and fell asleep immediately. I felt like all of the stress was lifted off my shoulders. I just needed to know that someone was listening and responding.

Since then, I have written many of those lengthy, rambling, 2 a.m. emails to Susan. I tell her she is the cheapest and best therapy a person could ever wish for. She always knows exactly how to respond (which is sometimes very little response at all). She takes time out of raising three brilliantly funny and loving sons to listen to what I have to say and I love her for it.

My sister, Becky, is one of the most loving and faithful people I have ever met. She works with people who have physical and developmental disabilities and she loves it. She has patience that is unmatched and her faith is astounding. She has been through a lot, but she is happy and healthier than I have ever seen her. I love her loyalty and devotion to her friends and family.

My brother is such a great father to his boys. He is sensitive and caring, but still makes me laugh harder than I ever thought possible. I am so thankful that he and Drew are so close. He is a wonderful teacher and has inspired kids to do things they never thought possible. He is passionate about his work and even more passionate about his family.

My goal is to take the best part of my siblings and improve that part of myself. I want to be a better listener, more compassionate, loyal to my friends and family, and passionate about what I do. Thanks Bobby, Susan, and Becky for showing us love and support throughout the years.